Whenever someone finds out I have a German Shepherd named Thor, one of the first things they ask is: “Isn’t he dangerous around children?” Or: “Aren’t you afraid to let a child play with such a big dog?”
And I get it. Large dogs can be intimidating. But the truth is, size doesn’t define behavior.
Whether a dog is good with kids depends much more on personality, training, and socialization than it does on height or weight.
This was just a theory for me… until my brother became a dad and my nephew Pedro, now 5 years old, started spending real time with Thor.
Today, they’re the best of friends — and honestly, I think Thor has more patience than most adults.
Big Dogs Look Scary, But That’s Not the Whole Story
Many people assume large dogs are aggressive or unpredictable around children.
But it’s not always the case. In fact, several big breeds are known for their gentleness, patience, and protective nature with kids.
Of course, size means you need to be careful — a 40 kg (90 lb) dog jumping in excitement can easily knock over a child.
But that’s a matter of supervision and training, not danger.
What Really Matters: Temperament and Socialization
Dogs that are socialized from a young age — exposed to different people, sounds, and yes, children — tend to behave more calmly and appropriately.
With Thor, I introduced him to babies, bikes, loud toys, and all kinds of kid-friendly environments from the start. The result? He’s wonderful with Pedro.
They play in the backyard, Pedro “reads” to him, and they even share snacks (which I pretend not to see).
Of course, always with adult supervision.
Big Breeds That Are Great with Kids
Some large breeds are especially well-suited for families with children:
- Golden Retriever – Playful, sweet, and incredibly patient
- Labrador Retriever – Energetic, loving, and gentle
- German Shepherd – Smart and protective, like Thor
- Newfoundland – The ultimate gentle giant
- Saint Bernard – Calm and friendly
- Great Dane – Affectionate and surprisingly mellow
But remember: every dog is unique, regardless of breed.
My Experience with Thor and Pedro
Watching my nephew grow up with Thor has been one of the most beautiful things in my life.
They’ve created their own little routine: playing fetch, running in the garden, even napping together.
Thor seems to understand he needs to be gentle with Pedro — and Pedro has learned to respect the dog’s space.
I’ve taught Pedro not to pull his tail, not to climb on him, and never to disturb Thor while he sleeps.
It’s a relationship built on mutual respect — and it’s amazing to watch.
Myth or Truth?
It’s definitely a myth that big dogs can’t be good with kids.
With the right upbringing, training, and love, they can become loyal companions, protectors, and even gentle teachers of empathy and kindness.
If you have kids at home and you’re thinking about adopting a big dog, don’t let size be the deciding factor.
Focus on behavior, get professional guidance, and be ready to witness a beautiful bond blossom.